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Consultations

$100
Virtual / hour
$200
In Person / hour

One-on-one consultations tailored to your questions, interests, challenges, and personal context.

Perfect for those curious about exploring kink, looking to deepen their practice, or wanting professional guidance for scene planning.

Highly recommended for potential clients with trauma history who want to explore kink as a somatic processing tool.*

If you're nervous about booking a session, a consultation is a great way to become acquainted in a less vulnerable environment.

*Miss Red Rida is not a licensed therapist. Trauma processing should be guided by a licensed professional.

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Upcoming Workshops

Upcoming

Consent: Beyond the Basics

Probe, Ottawa • September 27th, 2026

Expanding understanding beyond "no means no" and enthusiastic yeses. Covers nuances of negotiation, power dynamics, trauma histories, body language, and miscommunications.

Upcoming

Embodied Consent

Venus Envy, Halifax • October 1st, 2026

Conversational and experiential learning focusing on the embodiment of "yes" and "no" before, during, and after a scene through interactive prompts.

Upcoming

Scene Planning: 101

Venus Envy, Halifax • October 2nd, 2026

Turn negotiation data into satisfying scenes. Learn to treat scenes as stories, invoke emotions, maintain playfulness, and integrate constructive feedback.

Upcoming

Objectification

Venus Envy, Halifax • October 3rd, 2026

Facilitated alongside Sparrow Lark. Explores draws to objectification, distinct styles, differences from degradation, plus live interactive activities and human furniture positions.

Upcoming

Emotional Edgeplay

Venus Envy, Halifax • October 4th, 2026

Focuses on psychologically high-risk play, soft limits, humiliation, degradation, and CNC within trusted relationships.

Workshop Catalog

Featured Workshop

Consent: Beyond the Basics

This workshop explores some of the complexities of consent and works to expand your understanding of consent beyond the basics of “no means no,” and enthusiastic YESes. It is designed for those who are looking to build a more nuanced and in-depth practice of consent, negotiation, as well as provide tools for navigating common challenges.

Covered Topics:

  • Nuances of negotiation
  • Spectrum of enthusiasm
  • Body language cues
  • Wheel of Consent
  • Navigating power dynamics
  • Influence of past trauma
  • Coping with miscommunication, consent violations, and regret

*Primarily lecture based, with space for audience participation and questions throughout.

Embodied Consent

A mix of conversational and experiential learning focusing on the embodiment of "yes" and "no" before, during, and after a scene with guided awareness prompts.

Emotional Edgeplay

Distinguishes physical high-risk activity from psychological risk—exploring soft limits, humiliation/degradation, CNC, and trauma integration within trusting environments.

Objectification

Co-facilitated with sub Sparrow Lark. Explores draws to objectification, distinguishes it from degradation/humiliation, featuring optional interactive exercises and human furniture positions.

Nuances of Negotiation

Expands beyond "yes/no/maybe" checklists. Focuses on motivations, risk profiles, power dynamics, and seamlessly weaving natural negotiation into ongoing dynamics.

Scene Planning 101

Aimed at newer tops ready to map out fantasies. Covers "scene as story", evoking emotions, playfulness, and constructive feedback loops.

Consent Negotiation Power Dynamics Trauma-Informed Practice Body Language Emotional Edgeplay Objectification

Past Workshops

Consent: Beyond the Basics
September 4th, 2026 • Fetish Weekend, Montréal
Embodied Consent
July 25th, 2026 • Probe, Ottawa
Consent: Beyond the Basics
June 14th, 2026 • Tension, Montréal
Scene Planning: 101
May 24th, 2026 • Tension, Montréal
Embodied Consent
January 24th, 2026 • Tension, Montréal
Objectification
January 17th, 2026 • Tension, Montréal
Consent: Beyond the Basics
December 2025 • Tension, Montréal
Embodied Consent & Emotional Edgeplay
October 2025 • Exploratorium 3.0, Toronto
Consent: Beyond the Basics (Sex Worker Special)
September 2025 • Slutopia, Montréal
Consent: Beyond the Basics
September 2025 • Probe, Ottawa
Consent & Objectification
August 2025 • Fetish Weekend, Montréal
Negotiation & Now What?
June 2025 • Tension, Montréal
Consent: Beyond the Basics
May 2025 • Tension, Montréal
Consent: Beyond the Basics
Dec 2024 / Nov 2024 / Sep 2024 • Tension, Salacious, Probe

What Attendees Say

Your experience as a professional was very useful during the presentation. Thank you for sharing your fun and less-fun experiences with us.
Thank you for taking the time to educate people on this topic. I hope I get the chance to attend another of your workshops.
I attend most negotiation and consent classes in the scene. There is always something to learn! And I did learn a lot today. Your perspective is pertinent and important.
The workshop was insightful and inspired great conversation with my partner. It helped me consider my place as a Switch and how I navigate consent from both sides of the slash.
Thank you for the workshop, it was very informative and well presented!
Your Seminar was exactly what is needed to teach the ongoing evolution of consent and more advanced nuance surrounding it.
You're a gem and the community is lucky to have you as an educator.
Your experience as a professional was very useful during the presentation. Thank you for sharing your fun and less-fun experiences with us.
Thank you for taking the time to educate people on this topic. I hope I get the chance to attend another of your workshops.
I attend most negotiation and consent classes in the scene. There is always something to learn! And I did learn a lot today. Your perspective is pertinent and important.
The workshop was insightful and inspired great conversation with my partner. It helped me consider my place as a Switch and how I navigate consent from both sides of the slash.
Thank you for the workshop, it was very informative and well presented!
Your Seminar was exactly what is needed to teach the ongoing evolution of consent and more advanced nuance surrounding it.
You're a gem and the community is lucky to have you as an educator.

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